How about at launch checking the JVM bit count/version/etc and if not ok, bring up a window giving some instructions rather than trying to load 32 bit deps and failing outright.
Code:
System.getProperty("sun.arch.data.model")
I had a poke around and it doesn't look as though it's possible to do better than this without including a JRE with the installer (which is allowed, btw).
Fred.